A message from the minister - March 2001
Reflections on the Renewal Week-end
I was impressed by the quality of the conversations, the openness to learning, the willingness to change and see things differently, the good humor of the group and the depth and passion of peoples' commitment to B.U.C. It was a pleasure for me to be able to lead the process and, of all the times I have done this similar process elsewhere, I enjoyed doing it here the most. That speaks volumes about the spirit of the congregation!
I was particularly impressed when we understood the stages of church decline and assessed the health and vitality of the congregation according to the sixteen point questionnaire, (available in the office) and the group identified itself mid-range in the church of neurosis. We wasted no time in deciding to change that and work towards becoming a church of excellence. If you remember the definitions of the church of neurosis (communication systems closing down, people avoiding each other by emotional distancing, lower energy and an inward focus, sabotage of programs and withdrawal of money or support and people quietly leaving) and the church of excellence (open reality based communication, high energy, 80% of which is used in the various ministries of the church, clear focus and goals and a healthy theology).
This movement toward health was expressed later in the day when we negotiated the priorities and goals for the upcoming year. Briefly put we decided to seek a profound worship experience, create and maintain a climate that involves all the generations of the church, but with a renewed commitment to the young and those with young families. We would seek the spirit of God in all that we say, do, believe and live. We would be more open, inclusive and respectful of all people, particularly welcoming those who come into this community for the first time and we would continue to empower the laity to carry out their ministries.
You will notice in this newsletter and subsequent newsletters and announcement sheets, groups being called together to form ministry units to accomplish the goals. Whether or not you were involved in the actual week-end you will no doubt feel its impact in the life and work of our parish and I invite you to find a place to become involved as we grow this congregation together.
If you have any questions about the process or the results I would be pleased to entertain them.
In Christ,
Shaun E. Fryday