When children feel special, their self-confidence gets a boost! Here are some ideas to try:

• Make a date. Each month, devote one day to your child. Let him choose what to do and what and where to eat.
• Honor the Guest: At dinner, put your child at the head of the table. Serve him first and make a water or milk toast to him. As in testimonial dinners, each person says only nice things about the honored guest. (Siblings will try hard to do this as they know their turn will be coming)
• Create a mini museum. In addition to refrigerator, declare a wall in the house as a place to hang your child's art, writing, test papers and certificates.
• Provide "room service". Surprise your child when he/she is getting ready for bed. Bring a snack to his/her room. Take time to chat about his/her day.